Imagine your nextdoor neighbor is this big black man built like a rock and he just came to give back the football your son tossed over in to his yard, how would you thank this kind neighbor better yet, what sort of conversation would you toy have. Me personally I would mind if we moved the conversation to the living room to maybe discuss this issue and maybe come in oops sorry I mean come to some understanding or agreement between two adults. You tell me what and How.